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Not only is it the single most prevalent focus of literature, drama, poetry, song and the popular media but most of the worlds religions place a high value on the experience and expression of love. Dec 09, 2019 the problem lies in what weve been taught to believe. The emotionally eager wife vs emotionally distant husband who will not engage over twentyfive thousand counseling sessions have shown me that the most common marital problem i encounter is. Feb 16, 2016 the science of love, commitment, and thriving relationships relationship science can tell us if a relationship is a prize or a pass. In this article i will tell you more about love psychology so that i reveal the mystery of falling in love and answer the previous questions. Part novel, part philosophical inquiry into the origin and machinery of romantic love, the book follows the story of a love affair, tracing each stage.
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No matter how much time has passed or how many relationships youve been in since then, you just cant forget your first love. Heres a list of mustread books that offer interesting insights into human behavior and what makes people tick. Over the years, weve been conditioned to believe that love is something that just happens. You can compare people who are unable to love to individuals with obsessivecompulsive disorder ocd. How affection shapes a babys brain 1 by sue gerhardt isbn.
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